AdohrSpeaks: Answering Your Questions


Hey friends, welcome back to my blog. Today I will be answering some questions sent to me by some amazing readers. I got loads of questions ranging from relationship to lifestyle etc.

Lets get to it

Question 1: “Dear Adohr, how do you stay motivated and inspired?

My Answer: Self-motivation helps me a lot in staying inspired/motivated, I also meditate a lot and count my blessings. I have days when I just feel like quitting everything, but whenever I feel this way, I remember why I even started this journey in the first place, I also look back and tell myself “Adohr, you have come a long way, keep going”. So dear reader I will say, for you to remain inspired and motivated, self motivate, self-reflect, look at how far you have come, count your blessings, never compare yourself to anyone and stay grateful.

Question 2: “Dear Adohr, how can I get over a heartbreak/failed relationship?

My Answer: Getting over a heartbreak is not the easiest thing in the world, but for the sake of your emotional health and sanity, it is the best thing to do. I will advice that you try and erase the memories of your partner, I know it seems brutal, but you will never move on if you hang on to these memories, and you will end up miserable. So for a start, do a social media cleanse, unfollow and unfriend on all social media accounts. Secondly find a new hobby and get busy, travel to a new city, hang out more with your bestfriends and have fun. You do not have to become miserable because your relationship failed/ended. Dear reader there is more to life than a partner that makes you unhappy. It is way better to be single and happy than to be in a relationship and sad.

Question 3: “Dear Adohr, what is the appropriate age to get married?

My Answer: Lol I answered a bit of this on my snapchat (@missadohr1). There is no appropriate age to get married, as long as you are not a child bride/groom, there is no age limit when it comes to marriage. However before you get married, you should be financially, mentally, emotionally, spiritually stable and ready, if you are not ready and you are even approaching menopause, just stay single. Marriage is not for everyone. So dear reader, if you are in your early 20’s and you feel you are matured and responsible enough for marriage, please go ahead.

I will answer more questions next week. If you have any question for me send mail to



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